COMMUNITY NORMS
We uphold a culture of kindness, respect, inclusivity, and consent.
At RiverJam Romp, it is everyone’s responsibility to create an inclusive, welcoming community with our words and actions.
Inclusive means that we value and make space for each participant and their uniqueness. We encourage, support, and include everyone who shows up for an activity and wants to take part in it.
Sometimes we must get creative to help someone fit in. We start with, “yes, come join in!” and figure it out from there.
Responsibility means that we hold each other accountable for any behavior that creates an unsafe or uncomfortable environment for others.
We are sensitive to the painful impact of oppressive and exclusionary themes including racism, sexism, ageism, ableism, and homophobia. Because language matters, we avoid normalizing or perpetuating these themes, by eliminating or contextualizing them.
We respect and use the names and pronouns people choose for themselves.
We do our best to get consent from others by asking what they need and want, rather than making assumptions. This can mean asking if someone wants a hug before initiating one, not making unwanted advances, asking before touching an instrument that is not yours, etc.
We do our best to be clear about what we need and want. This can mean asking for help carrying something, letting people know you do or don't want others to join in with a song you are about to sing, letting a dance partner know your preferences before a dance begins, etc.
No always means no. Everyone has the right to receive help or walk away if they feel uncomfortable.
We give and receive feedback to help each other learn and grow. If someone is interacting with you in a way that you are not comfortable with, let them know, if you feel safe doing so. If you don't feel safe, ask others to help.
If you learn that your words or actions have caused harm, listen carefully, apologize, and shift course. We are supportive of each other's growth as we learn what it means to be in healthy community with each other.
These community norms guide us and help us to interact respectfully, safely, and inclusively with each other.
If you witness or experience something that goes against these norms, please let Peter, Amanda, or Louisa know, and request help or support if needed.